{"id":282,"date":"2012-07-23T17:47:00","date_gmt":"2012-07-23T15:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/sur-le-syndrome-du-sauveur\/"},"modified":"2012-07-23T17:47:00","modified_gmt":"2012-07-23T15:47:00","slug":"sur-le-syndrome-du-sauveur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/sur-le-syndrome-du-sauveur\/","title":{"rendered":"Sur le syndrome du sauveur"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><a href=\"http:\/\/www.psychologies.com\/Moi\/Moi-et-les-autres\/Relationnel\/Articles-et-Dossiers\/Persecuteur-sauveur-victime-quel-est-votre-role\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"56\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-yrVmrt8sKPs\/UA1_BlMmFFI\/AAAAAAAACcQ\/Yly6cKxhs04\/s200\/logo+Psybhologies.com.jpg?resize=200%2C56\" width=\"200\"  data-recalc-dims=\"1\"><\/a><\/div>\n<div><span>\u00ab Le sauveur doit d\u2019abord prendre conscience que son besoin maladif  d\u2019aider les autres n\u2019est rien d\u2019autre qu\u2019une nourriture \u00e0 ego \u00bb, observe  Christel Petitcollin.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span>Aussi, pour sortir du pi\u00e8ge du sauvetage  inad\u00e9quat, la psychoth\u00e9rapeute conseille de se rem\u00e9morer les cinq  conditions d\u2019une \u00ab aide saine \u00bb :<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span>1\/ la demande d\u2019aide doit \u00eatre clairement  verbalis\u00e9e ;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span>2\/ \u00a0elle doit \u00eatre cadr\u00e9e dans le temps et dans son contenu<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span>(\u00ab  Voil\u00e0 ce que je peux faire pour toi, jusqu\u2019\u00e0\u2026 \u00bb) ;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span>3\/ cette aide doit  comporter une contrepartie afin que l\u2019autre ne se sente pas en dette ;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span>4\/ \u00a0l\u2019aidant ne doit jamais faire plus de 50 % du chemin et doit v\u00e9rifier  que la personne aid\u00e9e a fait sa part ;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span>5\/ enfin, l\u2019aide doit toujours avoir  pour but de rendre l\u2019autre autonome<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span>(mieux vaut lui apprendre \u00e0 p\u00eacher  que lui donner du poisson).<\/span><\/div>\n<div><b><span>Pour lire le billet, cliquez sur le logo de Psychologie.com<\/span><\/b><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00ab Le sauveur doit d\u2019abord prendre conscience que son besoin maladif d\u2019aider les autres n\u2019est rien d\u2019autre qu\u2019une nourriture \u00e0 ego \u00bb, observe Christel Petitcollin. Aussi, pour sortir du pi\u00e8ge du sauvetage inad\u00e9quat, la psychoth\u00e9rapeute conseille de se rem\u00e9morer les cinq conditions d\u2019une \u00ab aide saine \u00bb : 1\/ la demande d\u2019aide doit \u00eatre clairement&hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"toivo-read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/sur-le-syndrome-du-sauveur\/\" class=\"more-link\">Lire la suite <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Sur le syndrome du sauveur<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29,47],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/282"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=282"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/282\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=282"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=282"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/artherapievirtus.org\/RAIVVI\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=282"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}